EPISODE 7 - MARITAL RELATIONS (PART 2)

The attention marital relations has elicited is so much that we have decided to give it a part two of the program.

I mentioned in the last program that when a man feels inferior or   inadequate his sex hormone levels decreases and that further worsens his libido problem. That is a psychosomatic effect that has been scientifically proven and as such should always be taken into cognizance when couples are trying to find out why they don’t seem to desire each other like they do before.

There are situations where some women look down on their husbands for whatever reason – lack of jobs, superior education or career position or family status. It is not for fun that God has made the man the head of the family; yes that position connotes certain responsibilities but that is not all, the man needs that hero image to function properly in all fronts-sex inclusive. So if you are married to a man, and you were not forced unto him in the first place the onus is on the couple to make their marriage work. And your husband’s pride is your pride as well. But then there are cases where the men are not helping issues at all; if they have lost their jobs, they won’t try to get another, start up something or even help their wives in what they are doing, some just will not rise above their inferiority complex no matter what the man does probably due to the kind of upbringing they had and so on. Families with this kind of challenge need professional counseling and prayers to regain the joy of home life.

Now for the woman, a woman has been created for love both to give and receive it. She was created from the heart region of man and the sex hormone in her is meant to care , to nurture and to procreate. And so whether in the home, in a social club or community, in her workplace and even in governance , she operates best if she is within the environment that enables her to display this qualities. This is often misinterpreted to mean that her place is only in the kitchen or the bedroom but I can tell you any setup that doesn’t appropriate these qualities is sure to create pain. Watch communities that do not allow women to speak out, or businesses that do not accommodate compassion in their running- they can only be tending towards crime and be covering up. So narrowing it down to marital relations, if you as  a man do not know how to pet your woman (and show of love starts with good morning), if you have translated headship to mean domination where the woman has been pushed to a timid position, do not expect her to now become not timid in bed. If she is so overworked and you just sit down there because men are not supposed to help at home even when they have more time than the woman, they do not expect any miracles when the time comes.

              It sounds nice when a man or a woman is receiving a call from the spouse and you immediately know because of the pet name that is used in place of hello and the countenance that brightens up. When you add all these up to the supplements’ that can be safely used to enhance libido, there won’t be so much complain about marital union.
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